The Ultimatum‘s Hayley Hendrich revealed how a significant age gap between her and David Atkinson contributed to them not partnering up during season 4.
“I definitely do think that my experience with David would have been completely different and it wasn’t there,” Hayley exclusively told Us. “There was a date that we had — our last date — and that conversation made it very clear what my decision was.”
Hayley confirmed the scene was “not shown” when the Netflix reality series debuted earlier this month.
“It was David and I. We were having conversations just about what we like, what we don’t like and how living together would look like. But he kept mentioning my age,” she recalled. “So I kept asking the question of like, ‘OK, what about my age? Do you think I lack maturity? Do you think I like to go out and party? Do you think our lifestyles are not the same?’”
After forming a bond with David, Hayley was confused about his concerns.
“I was trying to be curious about where he stood with the age. Granted, we are 10 years apart, but I didn’t personally feel like that was a dealbreaker,” she continued. “Because I did not think that our maturity levels were completely different regarding communication. Obviously, my communication looked horrible on the show, and I take full responsibility. But I’m a great communicator.”
She concluded: “We just aligned in everything except the age. That was the only thing. I was like, ‘OK, if that’s something that you really just can’t get past then it is what it is.’ I was not attracted to Killian [Grondin] in any way, shape or form, but I did think that he and I could form some sort of friendship living together, so that’s why I picked him.”
The Ultimatum follows real-life couples who enter “trial” marriages with a new connection before deciding whether they’re ready to get engaged to their original partner. Hayley entered the show with Blake Robertson and paired off with Killian before returning to her ex.
Hayley and Blake got engaged during the season 4 finale — but they have since called it quits.
The first season of The Ultimatum made waves when it premiered, but did the bold premise work for any of the couples? The Netflix show followed eight duos on the brink of an engagement. After an Ultimatum is issued by one person in the relationship, they began a trial marriage with one of their costars, […]
“After the engagement, we lived together and I was very unstable once I got back. There were a lot of triggers and so I don’t feel like we really were able to enjoy our engagement,” Hayley told Us. “Regarding the emotional side [of things] — at that point — I felt like I had been asking for it for so long that it didn’t feel genuine to me anymore. I was like, ‘OK, well, now you’re doing it and I’ve asked you for a year to meet my emotional needs.’”
Hayley felt “really bad” at the time, adding, “He tried. It took a year, but he was trying. I feel bad that I wasn’t able to really soak that in. It was resentment at that point. It was just not good. It affected our relationship a lot.”
After filming wrapped, Hayley and Blake ended their engagement.
“We broke up in September of 2025 and then we lived together still until I would say the end of October while I got off my feet,” she clarified. “At the reunion, I did not get any closure. Him and I have spoken since the reunion. It’s been back and forth. Sometimes no closure is closure and I just have accepted that.”
The Ultimatum is streaming on Netflix.
